Yuyama Reiko Born in Tokyo in 1960.
Publishing and advertising director. Hou 71 CEO, Adjunct Lecturer, Department of Literature, Nihon University College of Art.
In addition to creative direction and production centered on editing, he presides over a unit that holds sushi, "Bijinzushi," and Berlin is active all over Japan, including sushi at the opening of the guerrilla shop at Comme des Garcons.
Paperback to the work Woman sushi "(Gentosha)," Club culture! (Mainichi Newspaper Publishing), new book " Woman dressed as a woman ] (Shinchosha). In recent works " Over 40 ] (Wanibooks). Produced works include "Starry Sky Garden Planetarium Africana" (2006 Summer Roppongi Hills Observatory), Maki Nomiya's full-year recital until 2009.
Chapter 14
"It's not just Leon Oyaji that makes Japan Italian"
Yuyama: J-POP and current Japanese movies are the best, but Japan is "Crying"(*1) I like Anyway, the younger generation is crying (laughs).
Sakamoto: That's right. But that's because my mother's affection is there, so I cry. But in places like LA or Texas, where there's a breeze in the air, there aren't many. That "Mother culture"(*2) That means Japan and Italy are strong. Well, so may Korea. This is strong.
Yuyama: A man is a kind of self-reliance "Mother killing"(*3) It's something I do in my mind when I grow up or become an adult, but I wonder if I'm not doing it.
Sakamoto:When I was in Italy on a tour(※Four), I was reading a book about Italy, but in the old days I couldn't get a divorce because of the strong influence of Catholicism, but lately it's getting looser and more people are breaking up. In other words, more and more men are getting divorced in their 40s and 50s. So what do you do when you get divorced? You go home and live with your mom. Well, Women live longer(※Five) Dashi. And my mom will do all the work.
Yuyama: Even in Japan, I know some of them.
Sakamoto: further Children who do not leave their parents' homes when they are 18 years old(*6) Isn't it mainstream? Japanese society is becoming that way, so the point is that Japan has become "Italy" (laughs).
Yuyama: Love "Leon Old Man"(*7) On the other hand, the Troika system of Italianization that the mother cannot be separated.
Sakamoto: The first generation to withdraw is already in the late 40s. I am still muddy, and my parents say "○-chan" when they are in their 70s and they bring their food, but their parents will die soon. Then, I will lose my pension, what should I do? Talk about. In the future, the number of such cases will increase with tremendous momentum, in Japan.
Yuyama: Will those people go wild?
Sakamoto: Will it be raging or will you suddenly leave the park? do not know. Will it become a country with a lot of crime?
Yuyama: Or rather, the government should seriously consider the centers and facilities for their independence help from now on. Not to let their energy, which should be adults, go to the negative spiral.
Sakamoto: The guy who had been staying with his mother for a long time, when he didn't know what to do when the asylum disappeared with a pawn, he would suddenly shoot indiscriminately with Bang Bang, such things will increase in the future. ..
Yuyama: While Japanese people develop the atmosphere of reading in close relationships, they don't pay much attention to the relationships themselves. The company protects its employees, because it's a couple, of course, and I've been doing so far. But now that's getting difficult, it's an era when you have to consciously create relationships, right? Safety net(*8) But because of that, I have to be aware of it on a daily basis.
Sakamoto: I think Japan is over-protected. New Year's "Dispatch Village"(*9) That was right. People taking care of them are being interviewed, and they are all looking really good. Wear sneakers and a down jacket. There is no such person in a poor country. When I was wondering what I would answer, I was watching, "I am happy that Tokyo will do it, but I have to come out in two weeks, I do not know what will happen after that. I do not know what I can do after that I'm worried about that." I'm saying what the unemployment rate is, but nobody is sleeping in the street and icing. Such a country is not necessarily poor. I think this country is really overprotected. impossible. I don't know, why did it look like this?
Yuyama: It's been a while since I went to Los Angeles at the end of the year, but Americans use energy for human relationships. Isn't it really sweet? From the other side, I started to introduce myself as "Hi!", and then talked to me, "I had a Japanese student in a classmate at the university, and he was smart."
Sakamoto: It's very social, or it's overly amiable.
Yuyama: First of all, on the premise that you can't understand other people, first of all, you're going to do a communication jab "I'm not an enemy".
Sakamoto: That's true. I think that it is a substitute for a kind of gun, it is an advanced gun. The shiny teeth and smile are actually guns. In the western and southern parts of the United States, there is still a culture that people who do not know will shoot, but as it is not possible, I say "Hi" and talk to Bar. That's what it is. Great spiritual Pathology(※Ten) I suppose it came from. That's what I always think about.
Yuyama: That's how you confirm "others." But, I think it's not bad now because it's related to making that distance in conversation. When I return to Japan, the frustration is that people don't know what they think on the top of the Buddha. Even though there is no premise of good old human relationships that can be understood even if it is silent as in the past.
Sakamoto: It's the exact opposite, like Yin and Yang. In short, it is a fatal flaw in the Japanese people that they can't logically tell people that they want to do it or think that they do. I think people should understand. But in such countries, such people are rare in the world.
Yuyama: So, the moment you think it's different, you'll be killed immediately.
Sakamoto: When I'm watching Japanese TV, I heard that young people's Japanese is very bad, but I think the middle-aged and senior Japanese is bad. I don't even have any grammar. I haven't written. There is no end to give an example, but "It was a great tornado" was "It was a very tornado." It's a mess. That's the case with old people who are pretty good.
Yuyama: I "Alone sushi"(*11) I'm a practitioner, but that is Spartan's self-discipline in that sense. That's about it, and I experienced the lonely feeling of loneliness called “call me,” by spending money to improve my communication skills (laughs). The problem is that in a small community where everyone's faces and identities are well understood, only "air" flows, not communication.
Continue to the next chapter ...
(*1) A movement that has been popular for several years. There are more and more men and women who want to cry because they are touched by emotion such as "crying songs", "crying movies", and "crying books". Movie as a representative hit work "One-month-old bride" And its theme song "Tomorrow comes" JUJU with JAY'ED.
(*2) So-called mothers in each country "Oedipus complex" Although there are different cultures, the circumstances are different, so they are listed below.
■ Japan
In the case of a man, he is often regarded as a derogatory term with a negative image because he is grasped by the scheme of a "mother who is not separated from the mother" and "a son who lacks self-determination". However, when Kore becomes a woman, she has a mysterious composition in which she is more like "friends and parents".
■ Italy
Those who have traditionally had a strong sense of values that emphasize family and family ties and who do not hide Mazacon even after they have grown up (called mammone) are affirmed that they "cherish their family" with "mother's thoughts" Tend to be seen in. 3 Jun E40 refers to a relatively high-income white-collar who continues to live in his parents' home Mamoni However, the current situation is that neither the person himself nor his surroundings consider it a problem.
■ Korea
It is said that many Korean men have Mazakon. There is no resistance for the adult son to hug his mother or to say "Onma, Saranhe" (mother, I love you) in public, with passionate affection. There is a word “mamaboy” that refers to a son who is too fat even if he grows up, and it is sometimes said that Mazacon causes divorce, but in general, there is a part where male Mazacon is taken for granted.
(*3) "Parent killing" is one of the words used in deep psychology. It is said that this is done in the mind of the child in front of independence, and after that, they leave the control of their parents and leave the society.
(※Four) I stayed in Italy from November to December at "Ryuichi Sakamoto Piano Tour 2009 Europe Tour" held in 2009.
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(※Five) Looking at the life expectancy data for 2005-2010 from the United Nations World Population Estimates 2008, the average life expectancy of the Japanese is 79.0 years for men and 86.2 for women, overwhelmingly longer for women. ..
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(*6) According to data from the Ministry of Internal Affairs and Communications in 2009, the proportion of young unmarried persons aged 20 to 34 who live with their parents is 48.6% for men and 46.6% for women. By the way, the proportion of middle-aged people aged 35 to 44 who live in the middle of age is 19.1% for men and 11.4% for women.
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(*7)Ichiro Kishida First published on September 24, 2001 by the editor-in-chief. A men's magazine targeting middle-aged men (so-called "fathers") with a lot of disposable income who introduced high-class and expensive brand products and spent their youth in the bubble economy era. It became a social phenomenon such as being selected as the Top Ten New Word/Buzzword Award in 2005. A little bad guy We continue to provide readers with the ideal way of ". By the way, the title is a movie directed by Luc Besson "Leon] From.
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(*8) A mechanism to provide safety and security to the whole by turning a net (safety net) for preventing falling in a circus etc. and providing a relief measure like a mesh. Nowadays, it is also used as a term for social security such as life and employment.
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(*9)Dispatch cut A temporary shelter, cooking, and counseling for the purpose of relieving people who have become homeless due to various circumstances, including those mentioned above. Employment consultations are held using recreation time. It was opened in Hibiya Park from December 31, 2008 to January 5, 2009 New Year's dispatch village A large number of people in need gathered in, and the aspect was widely taken up by many media, and the name of the dispatched village spread throughout the country along with the current situation of the poor.
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(※Ten) A theoretical basis for the cause and process of a disease.
(*11) Yuyama's book "Woman's Sushi", where a woman attacks a famous high-class sushi restaurant where a man can take advantage of himself and deeply observes and considers everything from the master's dignity to the attitude of regular customers and the relationship between man and woman Details about Gentosha.
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